“With confidence, you can reach truly amazing heights; without confidence, even the simplest accomplishments are beyond your grasp.” Unknown.
I couldn’t agree more. Over the years our confidence has really plummeted. It seems that, because we couldn’t conceive, that we no longer had the confidence we could achieve anything. Decisions were harder to make. When we made them, it was harder to stick to them. The slightest difficulty and we’d go scurrying back under our rock.
We felt like rabbits trapped in the glaring beam of our childless status.
Paralysed we believed that we would be stuck in the place for ever.
Except the place where we were stuck was changing slightly. We simply didn’t notice it.
Unfortunately, those imperceptible changes were not for the better. We gradually took less care of our appearance. Our weight crept up. Ill-fitting clothes were packed away saved for the day when we could squeeze back into them. New clothes were bought superficially to be comfy and have “expansion room”. They also needed to hide a multitude of sins. Colours were out and anything that enabled us to fade into the background was in favour.
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