Small changes can have huge impacts
One of the biggest impact that being childless not by choice has had on my life is that the fact that I for years I felt empty and colourless. My sparkle had disappeared, and my mojo fled to the far … Continued
Existence can be hard
Existence can be hard. Isn’t that the understatement of the century especially when you are attempting to accept the unacceptable? If healing was easy we would all have come to terms with our situation years ago. We would have listened … Continued
Courageous Canbacer Andrew Fletcher
Every Friday in “The Canbace Diaries” I will be sharing the experience of another Courageous Canbacer as they shift their perspective and embracing their new CANBACE life. Let’s celebrate our successes and share our stories: they may inspire and give … Continued
And Now For Something Completely Different
For any of you who are about my age and yet have been living on a different planet for the last 35-ish years (and for those of a younger generation) I suspect I might to give “And now for something … Continued
Beautiful Perspectives for Independence Day
When I decided that Wednesday’s should be my “beautiful perspectives” day I really had no idea what I was going to write about. I vaguely thought that I could perhaps find some quotes and give my perspective on them. Alternatively, … Continued
New(s) and reviews 3rd July 2018
When I first decided that my weekly “new” topic for the blog would be a creative cheat and be about “new(s) and reviews” I did wonder if I was making a rod for my own back. Would there be enough … Continued
Creating my new existence, a step at a time
I’ve been stuck in my “childLESS is C***” existence for so long that I know that turning my mindset around is going to be a long process taking a step at a time. Whilst you can make sudden huge strides … Continued
CANBACE solves my childFREE or childLESS dilemma
“I’m so excited, I just can’t hide it. I’m about to lose control and I think I like it!” These lyrics from the Pointer Sisters could have been written for me. I’ve been singing them over and over again for … Continued